Last night was a lot of fun! My girlies and I had heaps of fun! And I had a very interesting conversation with one of my girlies over supper/breakfast at a fast food place from the wee hours after our round of "exercise"/"booty shaking" (*Laughs*) until like people were off to work! =P
She was having boy issues and the horrid thing was that she needed to move on from a particular guy-friend whom was never her bf or partner...That was the tricky part as in my opinion, I felt as though that the guy had been forever taking her presence in his life for granted, and she was constantly treated like a rag doll...She had to be there for him, but whenever she needed him, he was nowhere!
I hoped after the really long conversation, I did talked some sense into her and that she would realise that the best thing for her now, if she really want to move on is to totally try to get the guy out of her life...The first step would most definitely be the toughest step to make, but I hope she would find the courage to take that first step towards better things and better men in her life! =)
The situation that she is currently in kinda reminded me of myself a couple of months ago, where I was in her position, and I had my lovely gfs and guy-friends telling me to be courageous and take the first step in moving on...I look back at those memories with a smile, and I am very grateful that I had my lovable friends and my family whom gave me heaps of strength in taking that first step, with my PINK "crutches" strapped on in place...
This is for my dearest gf - Always remember my dearie darling, I love you and I would be there for you, come what may! And may you emerge a stronger girl after this experience! *HuGs*
On another note, since it was during peak hours that I finally gotten home, I had to be stuck in a traffic jam and I slept really "early" and woke up really late! *Laughs* And waking up to heaps of missed calls and SMS-es isn't that nice! But it made me realise that I have heaps of friends that missed me enough to send me messages and a particular friend, J, actually called me while he was at work just for a chat! Hope he wasn't caught or something! *SmiLes*
And its funny how time would perhaps strengthen a person emotionally and at the same time, make people more mature on their outlooks of life and things in general. It was a lil' strange cos I had a missed call in the night from this friend of mine, Y, who told me via MSN later on in the night that he had been busy with work, which was why he hardly contacted me and stuff, and it was due to the transition to the new job that he couldn't like contact me as much as he had done so like he did in the past, or contact me more often as he would have wanted, cos he was really busy with his shifts and stuff...
I found it a lil' weird, for work's generally a convenient excuse for most people for everything else that they would want to/(had) miss(ed) out on in general. I mean, all it takes is a lil' ounce of effort, and I am the sort of person who would appreciate effort and all...Like how my friend, J, (Read above...) actually took the effort to call me just to catch up and chat about random stuff while he was at work. And it wasn't like a short chat, it was close to an hour's time of chatting...I wonder what J was supposed to be doing during his shift when he was on the phone with me...*Laughs*
But Que Sara Sara...Afterall, it takes two to tango, so if Y is reading this (You know who you are), I hope you wouldn't be offended and that I really find it a tad bit awkward to talk to you recently, and I hope its just, like what you've said, you haven't been in touch with me due to your crazy work schdeule...Que Sara Sara...
And from the looks of it, it seems apparent that my "schedule" for the long long weekend might be "fully booked" again! *Laughs* I hate the fact that Ive got a makeup lecture later this afternoon, (Why must it be during the long Christmas week break? O_o ) and I might most probably be meeting the girls for more fun before having meetups and "hot dates" over the longg weekend! *Laughs* Im so dying to "exercise" over a round of "boxing" session!! Man! When can my throat infection recover? (The flubug's since returned to Antartica, but when would the throat infection follow suit? :( )
I need new contact lenses, and more new clothes! *Laughs*
2007 resolution's gonna be up soon..Watch this space! =)
I have been wanting to get a slide up for the longest while, and tahh-dahh, Ive finally gotten it done up all nice and pretty! *Laughs*
Enjoy! =)
Friday, December 29, 2006
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